The natural development of a relationship between man and woman: everything goes well, they see each other as life partners and sooner or later the moment comes when the man proposes to his beloved. Many representatives of the stronger sex know that this event should be carefully prepared. Here the most important question arises: How to make a marriage proposal? After all, this moment should never be repeated, but you really want it to become a wonderful memory for the other half. To make the moment of proposal unforgettable, there are a few things you need to consider.
Find the right engagement ring
When the young man has finally decided that it should be a marriage proposal, the painful phase of choosing an engagement ring begins. First and foremost, you want the jewelry to look so that the girl always likes to wear it, but for young men it is much more difficult to choose the right size. The easiest way is to take your loved one to a store where an experienced salesperson will advise you, present the most beautiful engagement rings and determine the size of your favorite ring. However, there will be no surprise, even if the reason is different – she will surely guess it.
How to check the woman’s ring size so as not to spoil the unexpected proposal:
- Take the jewelry your loved one wears and choose the perfect size with his or her help. But not every girl wears rings on her ring finger, even on her right hand. If a man met such a lady, there are no problems in choosing the ring: put the accessory on the little finger, mark the most suitable place with a pencil or ballpoint pen and immediately go to the jeweler.
- An experienced salesperson will select the right engagement ring based on these details. Many girls even know the size of the ring finger of the future bride without further questions, especially after many years of friendship. A young man should use feminine cleverness to get the information he needs. An acquaintance can easily find out which ring suits the future bride and will also suggest a suitable jewelry option if the situation requires it.
- The first option is to take an ordinary thread or rope and gently wrap it around the girlfriend’s ring finger while she sleeps. Another possibility: circle the ring your loved one wears along the inner contour and then measure the diameter.
How do you prepare for a marriage proposal?
Before you give your beloved a priceless ring box, you need to go through a serious preparation phase: first, you need to buy jewelry, second, think about the perfect way to apply, and third, say the right words. Every girl dreams of making this event unforgettable and original, because she has seen so many films about happy love and secretly hopes for an equally beautiful recognition. Mistakes a young man can make when proposing to his beloved:
- During the confession, your eyes should light up with love for your girlfriend, otherwise the evening is probably ruined and the other half will think at such a hint: Is it worth getting married? As we know, women love with their ears and with this approach, she might think that the man does not love them enough.
- The phrase “because you are pregnant”. Any man who respects himself and his girlfriend will certainly propose to her if her lover becomes pregnant, but pregnancy should not be prioritized under any circumstances. The other half is probably waiting for a proposal after the good news, but the main reason for marriage should be love, not duty to an unborn child.
It is not surprising if after such attempts the man receives a rejection or a timid “yes”, after which the girl falls over and takes a long time to recover. If a man doubts that he will get a positive answer from his girlfriend, you need to ask your lover with hints if she is willing to start a family before you propose to her. You have to ask her how she envisions the future and how many children she wants to have. Usually, the fair sex is ready to support such conversations if they want to merge their lives with this person.
Choose a unique place
In order not to disappoint your girlfriend, you need to choose not only a unique, but also a suitable place for the marriage proposal. Does your girlfriend like going to the theatre? Then reserve the best seats in the stands. If she is a fan of increased attention, the proposal should be made in a suitable environment where there are many people. For example, in a stadium or at a concert of a city’s favorite band, the young man will propose to his beloved from the stage. You should not drag your loved one into an uncomfortable environment – it is unlikely that a friend of warmth and coziness would enjoy an offer on the street in front of everyone or even recognition in a restaurant. But she will certainly be happy if you bring friends and acquaintances together for a spectacular and beautiful offer. In this case, you can use “cinematic” attributes: butterflies and pigeons flying out of a box, hundreds of roses, etc.